Sunday, September 27, 2015

Tidbits and Snippets for September 27th


The Good News About Your Work Nobody Sees - "Moms and wives at home feel frazzled. And often they feel resentful or alone. It’s little wonder why the feminist movement so easily persuaded them to leave home. We all crave evidence of our hard work. We want a grand building at the end of the day, to hear the oohs and ahhs. It’s human. But according to God’s word, we are building something grand, and earthly accolades are not the prize." (Generation Cedar)

3 Reasons Why Our Family Avoids Sleepovers - Great thoughts here, also a good list of resources at the end of the post. (The Humbled Homemaker)

Why Allow Women in Combat if We Won’t Allow Them to Compete Alongside Men in Sport? - "This push for women in combat despite all the evidence also fits the weird modern determination to have sex everywhere but gender nowhere, to resent everything and see nothing when it comes to masculinity and femininity. But it’s not just an academic game." (John Robson, writing in the National Post, hat tip to Challies.com)

"[P]roponents of women in combat don’t just want male soldiers who will shrug off the violent death or torture and rape in captivity of female colleagues, which ISIL would doubtless post online. They want male soldiers willing to riddle the other side’s women with bullets, blow their heads and arms off, pick them off at long range or sneak up and bayonet them while looking into their eyes. I cannot square this desire with feminist outrage at societal indifference to male violence against women."

End of Summer Picnic - I loved this idea! We made it work this past weekend, even though summer has officially ended. It will pair perfectly with the Caramel Apple Party that we have also made an annual tradition. We paired it with a desert hike and tonight's lunar eclipse. (Raising Arrows)

At the top of the mountain. Notice that the 9yo chose to wear his Hawaiian lei and his French Louis XIV mask, and that the 3yo insisted on wearing pajamas over his day clothes. Yes, they're our children.

Dusk in the desert.

A really crummy picture of the eclipse.


Supporting a Friend Through Pregnancy Loss - "Stillbirth has show me what it means to be held, both by the Lord and by precious friends and family."  (The Humbled Homemaker)
You can read the poster's stillbirth story here: Part 1 - Part 2 - Part 3

What Every Mother With Severe Morning Sickness Wants You to Know - Excellent material here. (Mama Gab)



The Recipe Corner

We loved this roasted cauliflower soup recipe (low-carb, GF). I added sage and butter, and reduced the amount stock from three cups to two cups. I also doubled the recipe, as one recipe doesn't make much. Definitely a keeper!

This roasted broccoli and cheddar soup (low-carb, GF) was also superb, and again, I reduced the stock from three cups to two cups (I love thick soups!).

New Mexico enchiladas (I used this enchilada sauce) - easy and delicious. We served with homemade refried beans and Mexican rice to finish off our unit study on New Mexico.




This recipe for country apple cake was superb! I split it into two 8x8 pans - one for church, one for us. On both fronts, it went quickly.

Come to think of it, I haven't yet found an apple cake that I didn't love.

With a growing family, storebought macaroni and cheese is quickly on its way out around here due to the cost. My two boys can easily put away a whole box in one sitting, and when you add a third child and my husband, two boxes aren't enough. Thus, I've been trying homemade recipes. This recipe for homemade stovetop macaroni and cheese is the winner so far!



From the Bookshelf

Stuffocation: Why We've Had Enough of Stuff and Need Experience More Than Ever

I expected another "how to declutter" book (which I love!), but this volume included much more - history, economics, trend forecasting, and all of the cultural factors involved in our culture of conspicuous consumption. Perhaps not unexpectedly, I disagreed with many of the author's points. That's just what happens when you pair a liberal-progressive author with a religious-conservative reader. But despite the fact that I often disagreed with the author's conclusions, I enjoyed this book very much - and I learned a lot. Worth a read.








The Wahl's Protocol: A Radical New Way to Treat All Chronic Autoimmune Conditions Using Paleo Principles

An amazing book. The author, herself a physician, developed a protocol of diet and lifestyle changes that she used to reverse her own case of secondary-progressive multiple sclerosis. This is amazing, especially in an age where degenerative and autoimmune diseases of all kinds are routinely managed, but not cured, with hard-hitting pharmaceuticals that cannot touch the root cause of the illness.

I am more and more interested in the ongoing development of functional medicine. Instead of prescribing drugs to manage the symptoms of a condition (conventional Western medicine), a doctor of functional medicine uses diagnostic information (diet, vitamin and mineral imbalances, gut health, stress, chronic infections, heavy metal toxicity, etc.) to investigate why a person's body is degenerating in the first place - and then works with the person to reverse the disease by addressing the underlying problems. This is a super-exciting area of medicine, and I wonder, on a personal level, how effective functional medicine would be in hyperemesis prevention. Read more about functional medicine here.


Dear readers, have a wonderful week!

Friday, September 11, 2015

Some Things You Never Live Down


A few months ago, our family was out running errands. We like to keep everyone in the car and let one parent run into each store. It saves on the in-and-out-and-in-and-out time with children, strollers, etc.

On our last errand of the day, my husband was inside a shop when the troops started getting restless. Something along the lines of, "Mom, he hit me!" ("Did not!") "Did too!"

I immediately started a game of "I Spy," leading into a game of "Find the Alphabet" - the game where you look for letters to complete the alphabet. "I see an 'A' in 'Sam's Club'" and etc.

Almost immediately, my husband came out of the store and we were on our way. We hadn't gotten more than a few letters into the alphabet game.

But being that I am fond of that game, I continued playing (silently) as we drove through the parking lot, garnering letter after letter in an attempt to finish before we got on the freeway.

I didn't finish the alphabet, but I got pretty far. And I immediately announced triumphantly to the family,

"Hey, everyone! I got to "P" in the parking lot!"

I beamed at them, knowing they would all be suitably impressed with my letter-finding savvy.

Instead, there was a dead silence. Then I noticed that my husband was giving me a bemused, "Dear, WHAT did you just say?" look. And the 9yo added, "Um, Mommy?"

And then I realized just what I had said.

I have yet to live it down.

And whenever I come upon the 9yo standing in a corner, giggling wildly, I know (*sigh*) exactly what he is giggling about.

Somethings stick with you for the rest of your life.

I've just added one to my list.

Thursday, September 10, 2015

Tidbits and Snippets for September 9th


5 Ways to Fully Embrace Homeschooling - Yup, yup, yup, yup, and yup. (My Joy-Filled Life)

The Secret to Planning Menus - If you're not reading this blog, you're missing out. Just go and subscribe and save yourself from a life of painful missing out. This is another excellent post! (Like Mother, Like Daughter)
I am currently working through Auntie Leila's Menu-Making Round-Up. So much good stuff here!

My Big Take-Away From Motherhood - I can't say how much I loved this article. Read it. Love it. Revel in it. (Generation Cedar)

A Season to Gather Happiness - "As fall approaches, back-to-school busyness ramps up, activities and duties increase, and value is placed on what is urgent, rather than on what’s important. Getting distracted from what truly matters is an easy thing to do in this high-resolution, high-standard, high-pressured, picture-perfect world we live in." (Becoming Minimalist)
I'm also looking forward to reading the author's new book, "Hands Free Mama: A guide to putting down the phone, burning the to-do list, and letting go of perfection to grasp what really matters!" 

Television: The Devil's Tabernacle - Regardless of whether we watch TV or not, this is an excellent analysis of historical trends concerning the television. Check it out. (Crisis Magazine)
From the same issue, I also enjoyed the deeply thought-provoking article, The Rape Culture.

Your Home: Is It Prettier on the Inside Than the Outside? - Another that I have printed to re-read often. (Contentment Acres)

Mothering Like Moses - Oh, how I needed the encouragement of a post like this. (In the Nursery of the Nation)


Recipe Corner

This Apple Harvest Oatmeal Bread was splendid. (Raising Homemakers)

We used this chocolate whipped cream frosting on an angel food cake for the 6yo's birthday. Next time I'm planning to stabilize the frosting so that I can freeze it - the recipe made so much that I doubt the clan will be able to eat it before the frosting defrosts.





From the Bookshelf

Current read-alouds are:
  • Traitor in the Tower - This is a great series of historical biographies, and I can't wait to find more. This is going on my list of to-find-at-book-sales titles!
  • Anne of Green Gables - I thought it would be too girly for the 9yo, but he adores it and chuckles over Anne's loquaciousness. Tomorrow we will read the infamous scene with Mrs. Lynde and a certain red-headed snippet.
  • 20,000 Leagues Under the Sea - This is such a wonderful boy book, and the 9yo is lapping it up. We are reading an excellent abridged version by Eyewitness.
  • The Sign of the Beaver - Always an excellent choice for all ages, and the 9yo loves it.
  • E Is for Enchantment, A New Mexico Alphabet - This is one of the "Discover America State by State" series, which are beautifully done. I don't know that the 9yo is overly enthusiastic, but I think he's picking up bits and pieces of knowledge here and there.

I've been enjoying other classic children's literature - Thimble Summer and Trouble in a Fur Coat among others.

For pleasure, I'm also reading some Agatha Christie favorites - most recently Sad Cypress and Murder in Three Acts.

In my continuing on-the-job training, I'm also enjoying What the Bible Says About Child Training and Future Men. Oh, and Simplicity Parenting.


Dear readers, I'm sorry I'm not around more! I am busy with home and homeschool, it's turning into a crazy-busy field-trip and holiday season, and a certain 3yo is occupying every second of my time with hello-I'm-three-and-I'm-going-to-cause-problems behavior. Please pray for my sanity! (And my parenting skills!)

And in the meantime, dear readers, have a wonderful week!


Sunday, August 30, 2015

Our Homeschool Schedule, 2015-2016


This morning as we were walking out the door to church, my husband turned to me and said, "Am I imagining things, or does this one (referring to the 6yo) feel hot?"

After whipping out our trusty thermometer, we discovered that yes, we had a fever on our hands, showing that the bug that attacked the 3yo last week was not yet done with our home.

Thus, while the rest of the crowd headed to church, I am now unexpectedly at home with the baby and the 6yo (who, despite his fever, is quite cheerful).

With a bit of extra time on my hands, I thought I'd publish this post that I've had sitting around for a while.

Please note:
  • Homeschool mamas out there, don't fall into the "oh no, if she's doing such-and-such, I should be too!" trap. This schedule can give you ideas, but each family's schedule will be different. Ours changes constantly. In fact, I had to come in and make changes just since I started this post last week. We are constantly adjusting.
  • And no, we don't keep this schedule exactly. Usually we are off by 30 minutes or so, even more in the evenings. This is our ideal, but reality is usually different.

Every schedule has problems. Right now, here are some of ours:
  • Not enough school time. This isn't too much of a problem right now, but it will be in coming years. As always, God is gradually stretching me and growing me in the stewardship of my time. We will just have to tighten the ship in coming years to make more time for lessons.
  • Not enough outside time. There are several factors leading to this, but it's definitely a problem - and one that we want to fix. We're working on it.

There is very little free time for me, and very little time that is not challenging in some way or another. Homeschooling isn't an easy calling! Right now I have to be very intentional with discipline (due to a certain 3yo) and tomato-staking (due to a tendency of the 9yo and the 3yo to start a fight if I am more than six inches away from them). It's definitely a challenge.

However, having a basic schedule has helped, and I am definitely learning and growing. I pray every day that God would change and grow me into the mother, homemaker, and educator that He wants me to be, and that I would be willing to learn the lessons that I need to learn (rather than digging my feet in and putting my ears back, like I normally do).

(Phone call from my husband: "Um, another one has a fever, so we're just coming home now.")

Okay, so much for free time! Have a wonderful Sabbath, everyone!

Our current schedule:


5:45/6:00 a.m.
 
Mama - Wake, dress, exercise, devotions, prep laundry.

 
6:30 a.m.
 
Mama - Start breakfast, pack Daddy's lunch, eat breakfast, get baby's breakfast ready, nurse baby, dress children, see Daddy out the door.
Children - Wake, dress, spend time with Daddy.
 
 
7:30 a.m.
 
Breakfast
 
 
8:00 a.m.
 
Chores
Piano practice for the 9yo
 
 
8:45 a.m.
 
Baby down for nap.
Couch time for Mama and children.
 
 
9:30 a.m.
 
Independent study for older children, play or preschool activities for littles.
 
 
11:00 a.m.
 
Baby up. Toy pick-up. Lunch and clean-up.
 
 
11:30 a.m.
 
Silent history reading time, 30 minutes.
 
 
12:00 p.m.
 
Mama - Eat lunch and work on to-do items.
Children - Free time, help clean up.
 
 
1:00 p.m.
 
Quiet Time:
Babies and Toddlers - Two-hour nap (more if they want).
Older children - Quiet seated play, reading, books on tape, finishing lessons.
Mama - Nap.
 
 
2:00 p.m.
 
Read-alouds and history-science-literature-geography with older children.
Grade and review schoolwork.
 
 
3:00 p.m.
 
Children - 30-minute video and free time.
Mama - Lunch dishes, grade school work, cleaning projects, to-do items.
 
 
4:00 p.m.
 
Children - Baths and afternoon chores. Free time.
Mama - Dinner prep, oversee baths and chores, finish laundry, go over school work with 9yo if not done already.
 
 
5:30 p.m.
 
Dinner and clean-up.
Devotions with Daddy.
Free play or outside time.
 
 
8:00 p.m.
 
Children's Bedtime: Teeth, pajamas, books with Daddy, then books with Mama.


8:30 p.m.
 
Mama - Chores, time with Daddy, shower.
 
 
Goodness-Knows-When
(should be 9:30, usually at least 10:30 p.m.)
 
Bed
 
 
 For those of you who plan to post schedules this year, I look forward to reading them!
 
 

Saturday, August 29, 2015

Tidbits and Snippets for August 29th


Books Unhealthy for Children (Recent Newberry, Caldecott, and YA) - Sadly, this has been true for many years - and parents need to be aware of this. (Deep Roots at Home)

Seven Times the Son of Hell - "Here are some things that I see among those who are producing converts who are perhaps not just twice, but seven times the sons of Hell that they are." (Get Along Home)

Why Pregnancy Before Marriage Isn't a Sin - "We tend to use words like 'unwanted' for a pregnancy that is unplanned. But every baby is wanted by God. He/she is knitted together in a womb, and Jesus has died for that child." (Single Matters)

Being Intentional With Our Words - "I remember years ago telling a close friend, “I should just yell at him the first time.  He only listens when I yell anyway. Why not just get to it?”  I was 21, my first child was not quite 3.  I’m so thankful I didn’t take my own advice and just yell every time I wanted my sweet boy to obey!" (Raising Homemakers)

Decluttering: The First Steps to Organization - I'm looking forward to catching Erika's video workshop on this subject. (Large Families on Purpose)

Rest for the Weary - "It’s that time of year. Other parents are sharing their success stories, whether with homeschooling or getting the kids back to school so they can have some fun-happy posts all over your feed, in your friends’ Facebook statuses, in your neighbor’s faces, in conversations at church. But you are in a slump. You are not having successes. You feel like a total failure. You read those words and silently talk back to me, 'I don’t feel like a failure, I am one!'”  (The Common Room)

The 5 Tiers of Homeschooling - Funny! And for us, accurate! Which tier fits your family? Can you guess which tier fits our family? (My 32 Cents)


From the Recipe Box

After reading "Merry Christmas, Amelia Bedelia!" the children wanted to make popcorn balls. It sounded like fun, but I had no interest in wrestling with boiling sugar syrup and candy thermometers (an activity which has resulted in guaranteed disaster every single time I try).

Thankfully, there's a better way! Try these popcorn balls, which are basically a popcorn-variant on Rice Krispie Treats. Total time from start to finish was less than ten minutes. I made a half-recipe, which was perfect for one adult and the two voracious critters also known as the 9yo and the 3yo.

 Dear readers, have a wonderful Sabbath!


Happy Thanksgiving! (Time to Party Like It's 1599)


Our homeschool history period of study for this year is 1600-1850, which means... Jamestown, and Pilgrims, and Indians, oh, my!

Of course, one of our activities for the week covering the Pilgrims was a First Thanksgiving Feast. We served turkey (okay, it was a chicken), mashed potatoes, "stewed pompion" (pumpkin), succotash, and Indian cornbread.

It was great!


Stewed pumpkin is not at all sweet. It's spicy and a bit tart (from the vinegar). Actually, it wasn't too bad - and thankfully, it was super-easy to make.



Succotash was great! We chose the kidney-bean option over the lima bean option, being that we had the former but not the latter on hand.

 

The children had a great time. (Sorry for the blurry picture - it's all I have.)


We were supposed to end the night with Indian Pudding, but unfortunately a limiting ingredient (no milk!) put a stop to those plans. It's on our to-do list for this evening.

Instead, here's a picture of the butter that we made for our recent study of the state of Wisconsin.


Do you know how insanely easy butter is to make? I'd been afraid of trying it for years, and after all that, it was a cinch. One cup of cream. One hand-mixer. Ten minutes. Bam.

It was delicious, too! We had homemade bread that night, and both it and the butter made a fast disappearance.

I have found consistently that one of the best ways to teach history and geography is in the kitchen. Not a bad way to do school!

Happy Thanksgiving, everyone!

Thursday, August 27, 2015

Tidbits and Snippets for August 27th


The Home Atmosphere We Crave - Great reminders and encouragement here. (Raising Arrows)

Ashley Madison and Who You Are Online - "One of the great deceptions of the Internet is that it allows us to think there are two parts to us, the part who exists in real time and space, and the part who exists in cyberspace. But... who you really are will eventually find you out. God will not be mocked." (Challies.com)

I Survived Roe vs. Wade - "All of America needs to don sackcloth and ashes. Pray for these mothers; pray for these doctors; pray for every lover of death who clamors for “choice”; pray for every politician with blood-soaked hands; pray for every fornicating man and woman who risks bringing into existence a life that they are unwilling to nurture; for every married couple that wants to have their fun and career, regardless of the consequence to their souls when they reject the natural blessings of their union." (Get Along Home)

Rivalry and Unity: Getting Along With Siblings - "If you have siblings, you probably have rivalry." Why, yes. Yes. We do. (Raising Real Men)

Mama, This Is YOUR Homeschool - Five years in, I still find myself struggling against the beast of homeschool information overload. Good words here. (My Joy-Filled Life)

Dear readers, have a wonderful week!